Words from the Minister

I've been reading The Book of Joy by Archbishop Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama.  They each speak of suffering and how that has the power to unite us with others around the globe, a timely message.  Certainly the suffering of Christ and his humanity on the cross connects us in powerful ways.  The resurrection, gives us hope that new light dawns upon us.  God is not done with us yet. In facing obstacles and challenges in life, Archbishop Desmond Tutu states, "And in a kind of paradoxical way, it is how we face all of the things that seem to be negative in our lives that determines the kind of person we become.” We are often shaped by events not of our own choosing or desire. Yet we set our new course and take the next step.

As winter is now in the past and spring arrives in southern Maine, we begin to explore the new season before us.  We are no longer the same people who entered the shadows of winter months earlier.  Now enlightened.  Now wiser.  Now more able and ready to make the journey.              Rev. Charles

                         

 

 Reflections from BackBay Mission Biloxi, MS 2017

 ​Wednesday, February 22

At the Jetport ready to head south. 

 


Rev. Charles leaving for Biloxi

Will spend 48 hours with daughters,          
Laura and Anna in DC before continuing on to Biloxi. 
The full group arrives on Saturday.  
Good things await us, this I believe.  
Light we bring and light we shall receive.

Friday, February 24
Charles sits on the Board of Directors of Back Bay Mission, 
I had dinner with the group on Friday upon my arrival. 
The Grahams found the plastic baby in the Mardi Gras 
King Cake, thus they are to host next year's party.  
They lost their apartment in the next town over –
Ocean Springs- in 2005 Katrina, in fact the entire building. 
Now they give back to the cause and needs of others.

Saturday, February 25

Group arrives in Biloxi
Group arrives in Biloxi

Group at the Biloxi/Gulfport airport
 upon arrival.  On time, but LONG day of travel.
Two days/nights with my daughters Anna and Laura in DC 
was a valuable time together, then on to Biloxi.  
 I arrived just in time for dinner with the Board of Directors,
 learning more of this fine program - meeting two folks who 
had my Father as a professor in theological school.  
Then off to a Mardi Gras parade in Ocean Springs.  
Saturday evening the full group arrived and it was bedtime
once we finalized the rental cars.  

Sunday morning found us in church at First Missionary Baptist 
Church of Gulfport; warmly welcome by Pastor Sonny and the 
congregation.  Big grocery trip on the way back, and prepared to 
meet the other groups we would be with for the week from CT and IL.  Maryfrances took the lead on a delicious chicken dinner for 23- so good!

On break
On break

Monday found our group at Roberts Street home, nearly done after 3-5 years of work and/or complications.   
I was at this house last year when a leak in the new plumbing ran for a week before discovered!  
We were especially blessed to meet the family, five of the seven members.

 We cleaned mildew off the exterior, installed all the racks in the 
bathrooms, fixed some door problems and began thorough cleaning in preparation for occupancy.   
Refrigerator and stove delivered at noon time.  Tomorrow two more appliances.  
Denise and Maryfrances worked in the food pantry for the morning then came out to our site. 
Supper was lasagna, garlic bread and salad; made by the Newtown, CT group.  Again, good eating.   Already witnessing the mixing of the groups - all part of the experience.

 

Tuesday found us again at Roberts Street, cleaning house
- installing stove, patching sheetrock around a leak to further 
prep it for a move in.  Thinking we might be done today, 
Benji/Mike said tomorrow we'll likely do scaffolding and 
remove dirt/grime/mold from under the eves.   This was our
'half day' of work and in light of Mardi Gras, we went to the 
afternoon parade in Biloxi.  

Mardi Gras
Mardi Gras

A major affair lead by the King/Queen whom we saw at the pageantry/coronation    
at the Coliseum the night before. Sat next to the Father of one of the dancers   
and as we exited spoke extensively with another local couple.  Folks so,  
so friendly and out-going. This Mardi Gras is another whole culture than 
anything we know/familiar with at home. Hundreds of beads.... 
Kiara came back with 120 strings of beads around her neck.....
thousands lining the parade routes.   The Chicago group cooked
supper tonight-- ham, two veggies, salad and garlic bread- 
chocolate cake for dessert.  In the evening, five of us went to 
local souvenir shop (Sharkheads) then to Katrina Memorial and 
quick grocery store trip:  milk, coffee, juice, Oreos and ice cream
.

Wednesday-March 1 Lent begins. Five of us went to Biloxi Lumber 
to pick up some windows and doors they were donating. Regrettably,
the company is closing, a great loss to the local community and the
Mission.  We also transferred some siding from a flat bed trailer to
a work site in need across town.  We may/may not go there to work
if we finish up our work at Roberts Street.  Some of our crew worked 
at the Loaves and Fishes soup kitchen, others at the Micah Day Center.
  
Then all of us were hosted for dinner at the Baptist Church where we  
worshiped on Sunday, then stayed for Ash Wednesday Bible Study.   Home by 8:00pm, now quiet.
Each of us needing some down time at different moments, living in a community is a gift and a challenge.
Common space, common meals,arranging 8 people in to two cars (who has the keys?) and watch for God in our midst.  
The learning today was to have a plan (or perhaps wiser, to have a direction)..... but await the next step.  
This morning, it shifted several times --- and all for the good!

Thursday found many of us at Roberts Avenue once again... AND the carpets would be installed today--- and actually into tomorrow as well.  Local workers, most pleasant and quite professional/expertise.  I said to one that he could be/should be a surgeon with such cutting and fitting skills.  He just laughed and smiled- and added he'd likely be making a lot more money if true.  I complemented him once again.  We continued with closest and vacuuming and shampooing rugs, touch up painting on the exterior and going through the list.   For dinner, our outing was to The Shed; local spot with great food and reputation.  However before hand, we went down to the beach for the sunset.  This location by the lighthouse is the site of the 1960's "Wade Ins" to call for equal access to the beach for all races and an end to the segregation of public facilities.  Several were injured and many more had their lives threatened in those first few years of social action.  This included one volunteer from Back Bay Mission. Seeing and being at the precise location of such history is awe-inspiring.  

Loaves and Fishes
Loaves and Fishes

Friday took us to Roberts Ave for final work.  More rugs to be laid and cleaned.  Final dishwasher arrived and needs a plumber plus the leak under the sink remains.   Some of the Chicago group joined us for the morning. Two of our folks were at the food pantry on site here at the Mission and two others at Loaves and Fishes soup kitchen where breakfast and lunch is fed to approx 60 individuals.  Abe as the cook, Jimmy assisting, Miss Mary out front plus our folks.  Had the opportunity to talk with Brian, the director.  An amazing fellow, so committed to the program and people; anxious to connect more and more with the Mission.  (The program began as part of BBM then moved along to its own Director and site a couple miles away.)  Brian inspired me with his spirit once again.

As a group, we decided to end our week with a nice dinner at area location "Shaggy's" instead of cooking one more meal as the other groups were also going out.  It was a nice way to conclude our week together.... and knowing we get up at 3:30AM for the flight back to Maine!!  I/We can be so proud of this group who carried the gospel light and love, open to new experiences.  Four of our group had been here previously and four were new to the experience and site.  A rich blend of ages and spirits, all committed to a cause of kindness and justice for fellow neighbors.   We believe there is no separation in Maine / Mississippi people.  We all bleed the same red blood.  We all have hopes for our children and grandchildren. We all give thanks for the roof over our heads.... and are reminded of the names/faces that have no roof- who have no home.  In our own places of poverty, we were enriched on the border crossing experience. 

Hearts were touched, horizons were broadened and light was spread.   In some small way, I/we believe the gospel is just a bit stronger for we have witnessed God in our midst.

My readings in The Book of Joy by Archbishop Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama has much to inform my time here and my spiritual life.  
As to joy in the midst of world suffering -  
"You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as a part from others but your connection to others.....The world is getting better. Think about the rights of women or how slavery was considered morally justified a few hundred years  ago. It takes time. We are growing and learning how to be compassionate, how to be caring, how to be human."
As to other faith traditions -
 "There is no other choice but for the followers of the world's religions to accept the reality of other faiths.  We have to live together. In order to live happily, we must respect each other's traditions.... There is nothing wrong with other faiths.   The problem is the faithful.....Education and wider contact are really the only solutions."
As to prayer -
  "The Archbishop once told me that people often think he needs time to pray and reflect because he is a religious leader. (However)he said those who must live in the marketplace- the business people, professionals and workers - they need    it even more."
All these speak to me and echo much of what is written in my heart and soul.